Don't manipulate others and force them to do things against their will. It's
not worth the consequences (I didn't believe there would be any until I
experienced a few myself). There is so much free energy and so many free
resources that it is virtually unnecessary to manipulate (e.g. bend others
to your will without giving them a choice) in order to obtain your goals. If
you're ever in doubt as to whether you should do something to or for
someone, just imagine how you'd feel if someone did the same thing to
you without giving you a choice.
Don't use magick as a form of escapism from physical reality. You'll only
end up living in and hoping for a fantasy future that never comes. Plan for
the future, learn from the past, but LIVE in the present and don't neglect
the physical realm. Support your magickal workings with physical action to
ensure good results. The physical realm is a great mirror for reflecting
your personal internal problems and issues back to yourself (through social
interactions).
If you're not successful with human interaction in the physical realm, and
you're not successful with establishing a comfortable (to you) physical
existence for yourself through normal means, then how can you expect to
become a successful magickian?
Help only those who are willing to help themselves. I know this one
sounds selfish, but it avoids wasting time and energy on people who want
you to do all the work while they sit back and allow you to spoon-feed
them. Such individuals usually don't want to change or fix the root of their
problem (which is usually in themselves). They only want a quick fix that
will allow them to remain the same. That is why I prefer only to help those
who are at least willing to help themselves (even if they're not in a position
to do so).
Ultimately, regardless of whatever direction you decide to pursue from
here, you'll have to figure out a way to put all this stuff together into One
system- YOUR OWN. The solitary non-traditionalist would have an
advantage here, having been developing his own personal system and
ways of viewing reality all along (although in many cases such views are
eclectic and often not compatible with mainstream magick systems).
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